The Beginning and the End – EP 62 Married in Paradise

So you've been on bustled a long time I know he says that Adam alayhis salam, after now we're talking about after shavon was initially cast out. And Adam it has Salam has, you know, went through the initial greetings with a loss of Hannah to Allah and the angels and so on so forth. Adam alayhis salam is in this beautiful paradise and so on so forth, but the money has seldom encountered loneliness. And so I mean, obviously Allahu anhu he says he narrates that that he used to go and he used to talk to the angels but the angels were busy in their tests via he would find them busy and they're evicted. So he's walking around gender he's looking for a friend He's looking for a

companion he's looking for anyone and he found himself lonely and then you know one day is add the mining is Salaam is asleep. And of course none of this is in Hadith This is this could very much so just be one of the stories of the people who look but the money is Salaam awakes to find his spouse how up Eve. Now How is her name according to many of the scholars because she was created from something heightened she was creating from something she was created from something that was living. So he opens his eyes and he finds his wife how he finds his wife Eve and Eve is a righteous woman. And Subhanallah we don't know much about her. We don't hear much about her. We will inshallah to

either study a little bit about her but she was a righteous woman. And there's something very beautiful about this last panel that says woman IRT and Haleakala common and physical as well as on the test cuando la her or Jana Bina kumada 10 Rhonda from the signs of a loss of monetize that he created for you, spouses from amongst yourselves, Li tests cuando la has that you could dwell with one another. So the dwelling of Adam is not with Eve was the first part of it and then a lot put compassion and mercy and love between the spouses. Now, this is very powerful. And this is very important that the prophets lie Selim tells us in gender, laser Phil jannetty arza. There's a hadith

in Sahih Muslim prophets lie Some said, No one is single and gender. There is no person that single and paradise the mighty his Salaam, was given however, and everyone that enters into gender would be given a spouse who that spouses, it depends a lot palletizers or the Hulu anthem was larger, but first and foremost, those that were married would enter together. Okay.

And Allah says in the Quran, enter you and your spouse's, right, and this situation. And the scholars they say that the first relationship that Allah created in the world was that of Adam and Eve for between human beings, even the parent and the child relationship came later. And half of them and Kathy Rahim Allah, the author of this book, he goes through these possibilities, you know, what would happen in general, for people he says, it's possible, for example, that someone that you loved and dunya but you were unable to marry for some reason, you would be married to that person. So that's one possibility. Okay.

Or it's possible that it could just be a heavenly spouse. So you did not necessarily You know, it wasn't a love in this world. It wasn't someone that was desired in this world it's not someone from this world, but you're given a heavenly spouse or you're given heavenly spouses you know, sisters asked all the time about you know, all this mention of who turned 18 and so on so forth. You know, spouses for men, what about women there's no such thing as how long and gender there is no such thing as something that's impermissible. In general, a person can have whatever they want but a loss of addresses at the moment for him Allah says Allah subhanaw taala that which is common and that

which is known. Okay, so there's that you know, we really have no restrictions in gender but the point is the prophets lie Selim says that there is no person that single and gentlemen just like Adam it is to them was not left single agenda. Now when you're with when you find let's say that you enter into gender with your spouse I've actually had people come to me and say, you know if going to gentlemen means I'm still going to be with my wife it's not

going to gender means he's still going to be there. It's not really agenda Can I get two gentlemen Can I switch out husbands? Can I switch out wives? in general? It's not gonna be like when you enter done it's not gonna be like, not you again, right. Can you go to that other house in general? I can I have my own space in general. Okay, because in genda, number one, there are no grudges no ill feelings, you might you might work out your problems before you get into genda. Number two, there is no there is no dissatisfaction in gender. Okay. And you will love your spouse and gender, whether it's a spouse that is heavenly or a spouse, that is from the people of dunya whoever it is, you will

love that spouse. And lastly, you know, something very beautiful the prophets lie Some said about spouses and gender, the messenger sly Salaam. He said that every time a person sees their spouse in general

Not that they would see that their spouse is more beautiful than the last time they saw them. And they would say, and you would say to your wife that you're even more beautiful than the last time I saw you. And she would say Subhana Allah and you're even more handsome than the last time I saw you, meaning part of gender is that Allah subhanaw taala makes the spouses perpetually more attractive, more beautiful, more loving, and so on so forth. So it grows right whereas in dunya, obviously we grow older, and you know, we lose interest but somehow lost Pattaya grows that interest he grows that attraction so that the bond continues to get stronger and stronger and stronger in general. And

so our last panel internet gave how to add them at ease.

And we asked the last panel retired to enter us into gender to Philadelphia with our spouses in the companionship of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam. A salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. I hope you enjoyed and benefited from this video. If you did, then please do share it and if you'd like to follow the rest of the series, then please do click on the top box and if you'd like to see all of the other episodes and the other videos we have to offer then please click on the box under that and don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more amazing content.