Fiq Of Love
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If there's anything in this world,
anything in this world that causes nonsense, to make all sense, that would be love.
Because love
when people are love, they see the bride and the bride. Possible Impossible, impossible becomes possible when you talk to them. They just believe and love and nothing goes for love, whatever it
is
no wonder that it became throughout the history of mankind. Until this day, as I was researching the meaning
of love, I couldn't find I couldn't really find
a conclusive evidence or conclusive determination to say this
word
has been defined differently for generations, but they all agree on one thing, there is a mystery
to show you how mysterious love is mysterious way to
give an example here.
But if you're
most likely most likely, you're not married to love.
Cuz
you love most likely you love the first ever experience was when he was still young
was across the street
510 years more or less.
And you still happy with the
ups and downs.
Like you share a relationship with someone who wasn't your first person perhaps the one in the second third. But still,
it works and function
comes to love my dear brothers and sisters, when it comes to a loss of power management
in many ways,
mentioned loss and the loss of power
in a way
that spoke about love and one of the greatest contexts but a loss of power that was speaking about
room
was speaking about the magnificent creation, the magnificent, visible gloss, he began last time the competition this is
a loss of power began speaking about the creation of man.
When he created
the creation of all these cultures and languages, we spoke about so many great things
in between all this magnificent creation
was it
is this? He said no. This is one of the miracles among his son and this is what he was talking about the mountains
among the sons, the ocean and the sea and all this stuff. A lot of confidence said that among the standards this that he has created for you spoken
of amongst yourselves as well.
Start
with us, so that you might find peace and tranquility,
peace and tranquility. And also
find a piece of
knowledge that is one shade of love
is one shade of love.
Language is very, very expanded language very, very deep and profound language, some of the
Muslim stuff
passed away 700 years ago.
Once a whole book, on the subject of love, he says,
more than 60 different words explaining the meaning of love in different shades, when you must be able to explain
things.
What's the meaning of
timing and soft, tender love?
What do you call it in English, the closest word for the passion, passionate love. So he put our passion in love. And then
what does
this have to do with marriage?
Mercy is another form of love.
And love transforms. One
relationship to the other moves from down all the way out.
You say most of relationship or
most of relationship
with passion and love, the way we were taught in this culture
all these horrible things, everything's supposed to
exist.
There is no love.
Because it's everything about love, but how do they explain?
So, they say
unfortunately,
that marriage is all about love, and the only one condition or one category, which is the passion,
same method, the first thing we did was that,
but then we start saying the genuine qualities, a genuine sense of your spouse becomes very powerful Of
course, all over the place. Now that you
see the reality of
it becoming.
So you have the option
as the only way
to do
but other people that go on to the next level.
And now one of these are many levels of blood, one of them
has mercy.
And then another word for actually compassion
which means passion and compassion.
In relationship he says replace it with your heart, passion and compassion.
Law says indeed
as
follows.
So this is
our last man and woman. This this position on the mandate in mind to love women and women and men is a very natural thing. It is something that is very, very natural as a last
in favor of human mankind.
You should preserve
what is it
how you maintain that relationship?
This is what we're going to be talking about.
Now, when it comes to
when it comes to finishing, just like I said, at the beginning of the relationship, your passion is love. But then
perhaps
more or less, and
they always
ask
why is
she said
she said
Merci.
Merci
in the same situation with a spouse is
holding on to her.
Again,
they're not.
They're not running on passion and love, the use of love. So when we look at those two extremes right now,
how can we into this wide spectrum? How can I live through this spectrum without falling into the practice of loving?
The initiative, love and mercy of passion and compassion
to Wales for longer
have to train and exercise both wings.
But we always focus on one when what happens.
So you have both so this is for the for the men, women, if you would like to survive in this relationship do you want to polish and so on and
so hard on your love and your mercy? You need to balance that
passion and love, they always say, flowers, chocolate, candles and so on all these things
is much more than just candles.
And for those who just
revise.
I also tell them that
you will have the best guidance when he was
15 he was still cherishing those feelings even though he was an example, one time,
a long time
in his life, so when he became Muslim, he was a jerk on the one spot against the prophet
in
just one year right before the conquest of Makkah.
The Shahada embraces Islam. So as
the Prophet
then suddenly he puts his hand back.
So
what's going on
in your mind?
So what is your condition?
Me I fought against
democracy.
You come
in
Gilda
is
a science and condition and he was the head of the military.
When he came back, it was time for us.
So there must be some connection.
So we can come back to that. So law is adult for the man
who is the
man?
Who is the most beloved dude.
When you asked him a question
you asked the province of Alaska, who was the most beloved to
he just said.
And then he
was kind of surprised. He was thinking about the surprise, I said,
I don't talk about I'm talking about men.
I don't mean that I'm talking about men.
Which means Her father
is my best friend
will learn
to ask the simple question and it was very
unexpected.
The passion
among themselves.
Demand
is still
natural.
She can't carry the grievances of some of his wives, I guess.
But his wife was a very natural normal, I don't think he was was was.
So the
people that will send their gifts and the food and whatever they want to offer them
offended by that
who is best to gather references other than Bob the most
the most beloved to him.
So,
it is time
for some justice.
So, why
don't you love why you love
then he points to actually goes
there is a smoker
which means to talk
we have
some power to that extent.
If needed experiences
in common.
He was saying as we
express those through words through action,
this is not
this is
these are natural.
However, they are you.
issue of loss.
Do we say
the answer the business day we
know that why is that because
You cannot judge something
when it comes to love, it's something that you have in the heart. But what do we exactly judge? We exactly just the action, the action, what do you do? How do you act
based on those feelings, some people they fall in love so passionately.
And rationality.
And a lot of all them accountable for the action.
Other people
will love them
was
an iteration of it becomes an issue big fish. So
agriculture becomes a big thing. However they
sum
against
against.
So Allah will judge the people based on the actions they take the love that they haven't been hot
and that's what
they said, but when it comes to love, it's in the heart
because it's invaluable.
However, we will judge the actions if you do it before love.
But it
isn't until you commit
adultery fornication was the first of all accountable for these practices. It has to be done in order to fulfill that promise of Allah
tranquility.
Now, of course,
by choice, or by force,
or by choice, which means is it
up to this person?
Or does it happen by choice?
Wow. Okay, can I give you I'm gonna give you one minute, I want you to talk to the person sitting next to you. This test you
chose, and let's see if you can convince them of that.
had no intention
on you.
Merci. Merci. Can
you just wake up?
You have never seen it before.
Guess what?
The answer actually is both.
And then after that
How are you?
Speaking
man, you
You see something that attracts you to them, right? So without you having choice, open your eyes and do
what you love.
So that's what he says, fall in love
with love, in most cases of hackers by choice, sometimes a loss
for example,
they
just cannot say
how much they try.
They try they try
is not.
So this is something that was forced on them.
So what do you do in this case, when it comes to the law of demand, if you're not prepare yourself for marriage, don't even try because
it consumes your energy, it
causes many people to become weak in their worship because it consumes them from inside.
But once you're ready for the person that
shows that they open your heart, you can open your mind,
open your eyes, and enjoy that.
And peace of mind for those who live
tested. Again,
this is somebody who has an image
so now
there is no way to control this easily. However, as a human being Allah
gave you basically
should put some restrictions.
Okay, I know I
can't.
Yes.
You need to
ask Allah to help you go through this. And
another question, why do people fall in love with a beautiful image?
You know, because all
you got to know
is one of these words of one, I read more than 36 different curriculums. And there was a very famous paper which you all know the very famous statement that the spirit of bandwidth.
Many of these cases many of these stories, they base their relationship
on based on month on image on a beautiful image of Cinderella
Kennedy imagine someone just chases a woman, you know, all over the world all over the city, just
because of the shoe size.
Some of the shoe size issues and wherever.
Now, of course, unfortunately, this is right now this was
a lightning
strike. But they planted something in our mind that if you have a beautiful image, then you will live happily ever after. Now most accurate all these
all these fairy tales, they always end with this statement.
And I've never I've never regretted any part two of this talk.
There will be just like anybody else
perhaps.
So but we don't say talk to so why do people get attracted to me? Kennedy
condition because we will
marry someday
But Was that something that means to you when you get conditioned to that?
Yes.
Parents, but why? Why? Why? Why their face is what matters the most
brings happiness. Why do we associate beauty with happiness? Why what's the connection?
Of course, we all want
the beautiful
image. All this is here will happen that question American has
an English language
learner.
And now this book is
another beautiful treatise on love. So he explains why people are beautiful. He says
he says
that we have created man in the best meaning the
most beautiful form. So for us, for us, we've been also raised to believe that beauty is associated with work with perfection.
You will see a nice car.
Nice car design.
What
is beautiful,
beautiful, why they describe it as beautiful.
Perfection.
That looks nice and beautiful. Why? Because for us beautiful means
beautiful.
So based on this beautiful,
handsome God, what is
associated with
these
beautiful, beautiful,
beautiful shows we must be.
That's what they find
is much more. When it comes to love and relationships. It is much more than just an appearance. So what is it? What is it? This is the thing that we learn from
psychologists and therapists that from the practice of
when it comes to practicing law, you have
you had to rush for me to come to me.
Maybe after?
He says to me Well, honestly.
So okay, so he asked me, What do you suggest for me? I said I have the solution for you. What is
your solution?
She was
asked, okay, let's go and talk about love what exactly happened?
For most people, when they printed this out, they refer
to the sentence of love the feeling that
I stopped loving, which means I don't feel
don't have that compassion that I had before. So I asked him I said
Wouldn't it be
wonderful?
Blah, blah, blah. I said tell me. What did you love?
Okay.
I said so now what's going on? While
she's talking
He's not doing this anymore so you see that's what I mean by love love you love them for the actions
the action that they have the relationship
now that your solution is to reactivate love
So tell me what do you
got
look nice
chocolate with so many things right?
It was so nice
says don't do anything
for granted so she told me
Can you please say
based on an entitlement
so if you want to revive relationship you need to check Why did you love them before for what reason as much as he was always nice to me, she was always respectful
so my advice was react in a
responsible way
if you know that you're watching this is these things from your
beautiful
spontaneous gesture
come back again.
Now you will never be too busy because it doesn't take much of your time.
determination and effort and attitude that's what
matters therapists they accidentally explain to rationalize love to rationalize and love that it's
true things one is the law theory and the other is the account bank account.
So, let's begin with the bank account the bank account What do you
propose somebody proposed
he wants to start the conversation immediately
you open a bank account and they open a bank account with a
checking account
checking account
but essentially
every time you do something what happens
to the account
every time you do something
so you keep investing in
chocolate bar you brought a chocolate bar reception
got so high yield investment in terms of recession.
So even these small
investments should continue to
invest investing, investing, investing, investing, you know, you're so so
busy with
whatever it is.
So once your product is changing, you're not important anymore. Ask
what they care about.
The most important
and that's when you start a mandatory response. So the man get the gun from his wife, you know the things that he needs to do.
Even though that two kids right now.
But he's still the same for the
same thing.
Again,
they will be withdrawn from this account.
It was wrong was wrong with that.
There's not enough investment,
eventually gonna be
more than deposit. And at some point you're gonna find yourself on my hands.
So if you want to have a loving relationship
and
investments, it doesn't have to be something to use.
They will make the difference. And the second
they said the last time last time
just like a vehicle, and postcards out there.
And the customer says,
Now, let me just show you.
What do you guys thought to forget?
When the
most
majority of women, women, when it's half full,
they stop.
And they ask the guys, when they just start to fill gaps
in the middle of nowhere,
it just
function as long as it's fine. Don't stop No.
As long as the
do not stop, don't waste the time. I remember one time.
So the young man who came to drive me from the hotel to the
event.
So I don't I guess you're going to stop
wasting
you know why when they want to keep stopping you
like checkpoints,
checkpoints,
everything is okay. It just
is the
truth when you do this, we do that.
For men, as long as it's fine. Just don't touch it don't stop.
That's why
this is why why the industry is happy.
Or at least she's not comparison.
The highway that's when he wakes up when his wife gets upset.
And then one day his wife comes and says
he wasn't crossing his mind at some point that his wife would ever ask this question. But he was so distracted was the highway on the road that he never stopped to fill gas? Why when they want to stop for gas every now and then. Because they always want assurance in the relationship.
And this is how you should enjoy
enjoy
security.
But also
to check that I'm in because sometimes Yeah.
So check in every now and then
they don't have to check
once it breaks.
That's exactly the same thing. Why should I go on a vacation when we when we find a
bride
when she has all these things over so they never think of it as insurance.
So when it comes to the issue of marriage and
relationship, you will need to rationalize your religion.
Russia, Russia,
Russia,
what made you love them and what makes him love you these are the things you need to keep to keep in your mind. And always keep doing keep doing it because they're locked in for
as long as you can.
So keep the maintenance going.
Now
let's see that
number one will come to the
store.
One thing
to love one of them is water formation. The waters have permission for permission meaning that every time you do something good
thank you very much.
Awesome. Anything that is mentioned feels appreciated. And when was the last time SR one of the last time they serve as
trash cans on the back of a dashcam and take it off without you asking.
Because most men are very practical
for the garden
space
very happy. Why? Because
it's efficient
and assembling again. So imagine that your husband one day
instead of pushing.
In this case,
please please come and say thank you very much. I really really appreciate
those words.
A lot of fun for
anyone who says to his brother does
this or not.
house should
appreciate his work on regular basis every single day. In the morning, in the afternoon. Remember, when you do these things we appreciate
you come home for more. You're very tired. You sit down
it's the same thing every single day that you do.
It doesn't mean
said
the
same thing with the children.
What he comes up with it comes back
It doesn't matter.
And same thing for both of you
can imagine what some people are really like the second is
quality time, quality time.
If you ask most women actually have a survey that I do my workshops on the subject when I asked the ladies What do they complain the most about the number one complaint women they have against?
What is the number one complaint one they have against?
It was which is true. But
they said
they don't listen
The biggest complaint I have about their life
optimal
solution for this problem is quality time, you know, when it comes to a husband, and she says I want to talk to you,
because that's going to be talking about
is going to become 50.
So that's why
so that's the first thing
that the husband's gone for his wife to talk to her, when
they checked her husband is serious about this. Because you know, one of his biggest problems is that is my house. So when he does
his laptop, for the TV,
that he can distract.
So they need that quality time, what is the
few minutes divisible attention between a husband and wife, just for them to talk not
to share information, as much as to just to communicate and connect with one on one of them. And as they speak, men, they like to speak just to give them permission
to share emotions and
conversation when other activities such as visually you look at the guy, one speaker,
but the actual conversation in the center, why because there is not enough information as much as inflation, which is very good. This is such an important
article, because it's very hard to read and design differently for legal
levels.
That's an amazing thing.
So quality times is what they want, they want to feel better. Sometimes
you have
to go outside
the home office, then you just got to
just forget about everything.
And
then come on.
He used to
send the army.
Imagine imagine those moments of
walking together.
Imagine walking
on this beautiful spacious place.
Talking and chit chatting with one another. So everybody want
to say one minute, but those memories will last forever.
Some allow
us to go all the way back.
Because you know
men and women they hate sometimes.
Why? Because for the night is focuses on destination and a woman facilities because when you don't know where to stop, and then also focus on the road. So when she says
to mine,
she said nothing.
But it's quality time. That's what I told you both husband and wife. If you ever get together, to talk to shop together and so on. Make sure that you decide on the time. How long would it take to pay 10 minutes and stuff
For
you For the purpose of
receiving
which means if you didn't fit
in as it was between a husband and wife
or husband comes with one will mask it
will also do is that for men I get asked to be
they still have a monetary value. So that's why they don't give gifts very often. Because once they say that they have been bringing big gifts and that's why they get disappointed many times in the relationship because after all this sacrifice that's what I get from him.
Because I
don't care about how much it cost what they care about the idea the thought that contains that you will you have the passion in my mother's alley of Walgreens in the chocolate highlighted animals 50% on sale. For me that's amazing.
Please share with
us
chocolate that makes
sense.
And manly gifts. What does that mean?
chocolates, perfumes, flowers, these kind of things and so on. So when they buy their husband, the husband especially because his check the price
that's
why because
these are
some really practical
tools like gadgets, these kind of things a car for example, all this stuff so
please don't forget that you live
a better life for themselves. So
don't buy it a laptop.
This is the latest edition.
Let me show you
this
something such as a
while that he wants her to
know
is that you may or is exclusively for them that says you have a laptop
my permission for you make it
and
then name this.
In this case, you would know she was exclusively for
laptop
chances you must
be smart, smart.
Sometimes the way you do these things will be the most beautiful gifts. We don't have to buy some expensive for a gift, something that has a beautiful child that will do the job number four to service the meaning of actual service women specifically
rely on their husbands to do for them to show love
coming from war and wanted to keep the show me that we face because the house was not very close.
They have no idea how many times
but it has no children.
They just come in
so number two is to Arizona right now Mashallah. regardless how much you organize and you may use you, you leave the game room, just leave it there for five minutes or less.
She doesn't she doesn't play
Video inboxes
in five minutes,
back to what was.
So for the men, whenever they come home when they see the situation like this
social emotion, instead
pick up these toys, put them away, put these pillows back on the couch and eventually do something without being told to do.
It is too busy extending already.
What exactly is it suddenly
gets away from me
best choir and so forth without being told.
And many
more than this, and the love I have for you.
You cheer each other
on of seven acts of service. And finally, the physical
proximity.
When he walks around, you'd love to have all hands on, sometimes at the beginning of the relationship.
But then after that
they don't actually
live in.
They have a sofa, they have the chair, and they have the loveseat.
Because, you know, I recognize most of the time,
you don't have children, yet, you spend most of your time
on the luck, because it's not actually two people. But we have
a baby. So in this case, we have extra space. But you still love the proximity goes. And what does that mean? That physical touch, I don't mean by
experience for me versus show kindness. And that's what
she was crying, she said, some of us needs to come from the message when it comes back from outside the first thing he does. So, the first thing is a random squat and against his mouth,
his mouth and then the company faces as well. What is that?
What does that mean? Is that going to be sweaty and smelly?
And then come back to what he said.
This is the this is not about the physical, you know for to go beyond that it is to show the love and respect for the same thing. She said when he goes outside when he wants to live to the message. She said
Why is fasting, fasting?
She said he used to kill his wife.
And then he would walk up to them as possible.
Because
she was talking about
he was
shaking his
head you
before it is worth way
more than just now is fast. It is an act of devotion to the message after devotion and on the way out. What does that mean? That's
the beautiful kindness that shows love responsible law.
She says
touch them by his hands or by holding their hand as they're sitting together at home. So the last one was the last one just sitting there on the dinner table.
As you're eating or having a cup of coffee or conversation.
A few weeks of your marriage and then after that.
So lovely.
And one of the most beautiful show our beautiful, beautiful show of physical
Chapter one.
The first one actually says on the,
on the
washroom facilities and so on. So she overheard, she overheard the other seniors in the method playing with like having a show like a workshop or something like that. So as the the class, the spirit of the armor, so she can
listen to
what she was doing. And as the thing
that he is continually he can see through, he knows she won't
need to say anything. So watch
out for her. And she came from behind. I'll show them the house. And then they had a window that overlooks from the house.
So as she was standing behind this little dog,
and she was looking over his shoulder through the window to them as
she described that, he said what the
key was on his chin, but it is beautiful, this
dimension that that will not be visualized. Can you try to visualize how would they be standing
on the street, that doesn't mean just, you know, kind of you know, this head is like this. No, it means she was
resting her chin on his shoulder.
And she's visiting the region with her face to hit it.
So hard to leave his head as well. So she will have his cheek on her cheek.
cheek on his cheeks all of a sudden, and why would you be hungry?
I mean,
I will suggest to your husband, which is a beautiful, beautiful woman's
body was waiting for her to finish watching he will say
no.
Then after some time,
finally, after so long, she said
she used to read a story. Many years after the festival. She said well, La Mancha channel,
I had no interest.
This position
makes you wanted to enjoy the position of tea on her tea.
The last position
such as a show of love, and
this was one of the most memorable moments in his life
is the status. And those are the last you know, in
the last few seconds and breaths from the
universal line cannot come closer to the end of the service line.
And the last few months, the last 14 days, he was nervous
about the AMA. And the last day he was unable to move on. On on he was unable to first of all,
he said to make him to ease his pain and suffering. So she would go on his bed with him on the bed. And this is the body and rest his body on her chest and I want you
to sit next to him and she would dress his body on her chest.
She would hold his hand from behind. And she starts wiping with his Blitz attack resistant because he was unable to decide.
When in those last moments, what she said the thoughts and his head was between her chin on her chest so he was thirsty and he wanted because he also wanted to deal with it.
of woman like this, and this woman husband is dying.
What
was a nurse she had to be in that position. There's nothing for her husband
that she
needed the last one. The last breath She said her daughter came in and he has in his hand his wife the the toothbrush, so when she
said she couldn't speak. She said
I know how much
said
she said yes they should be
and yes. So she
and she she
She She,
and she played another activity.
And then she was
stopped in the forest or vice versa.
And he starts cleaning his mouth. So
he said,
access. I've never seen the problem. So law there's suddenly been in his mouth went away. But
as it was credit for something special. And finally he puts them down
to the heart of companionship and companionship, that means I would like to depart. She said he
was coming and asked him if he wanted to stay longer.
Suddenly, she said,
I felt that way.
on my chest, which means
to the last minute, this lady she's telling us, I've never
I've never let go, my husband to the last breath is not
such an amazing show.
That's the genuine,
genuine
and really show
moments.
She says, manager may not often and
it wasn't my chest. I never go to the last minute, the last
thing she said, and the last thing ever started from this world was my slide.
Because she was so awesome. She was so happy. And the last thing is he from this world, what
what else can you say about this amazing, amazing and real example of love, from the logical sort of life.
When it comes to love, as we said earlier, this is from a loss of
the above.
And it's a blessing from Allah.
oma, for those who like to enjoy that peace and tranquility and subpoena, they should pursue that and
do
it because you enjoy it.
And if you don't find your joy, what's the best example is the example for
why we have problems in our marriages? Because we're not really going
to marriage and marriage.
Today,
university man, I'm sure when you go home, you don't go home empty handed.
To me for the chocolate bar.
And for the ladies.
Don't forget that you always compliment your
sister.
Me?
Yes.
My question is what
love
is love
is love. Why do people sometimes think of us as love?
If you check the different kinds of love different categories of love, this is one of these categories, sometimes of romantic love, actually a romantic love is part of this as well. Because if you take romantic love
romantic love
stories such as the famous story in English as well.
Now in every single culture, every single culture asset they have models
Not so among
the
most famous love story is called face balloon.
And if you ask them what happened,
the father of the girl refused to give the message to them. So she might have someone else. And as a result of that, this man is
literally insane. He walks in the shovel, you know,
every time they mentioned,
he recovers, and you give, obviously these beautiful lines of work. But we're speaking about something else.
So this is another project.
So why don't people sometimes used to be below.
And I believe that this is actually a psychological issue that needs to be filled in the thing that's being and you know, it's a show of love. And that's a psychological problem, specifically, the amount of things that show the show of love for what needs to be physical
sickness,
to show to show control by verbal abuse and emotional abuse.
So non
abusive,
to just enjoy,
enjoy going after them, because he loves them so much, and they
enjoy, they love to see how much he suffers,
the Muslim should lose
money
training, I teach the students how
to qualify. So, if
you have an inner circle and
the inner circle
and the second one is bigger circles.
Core circle contains many main qualities that you should not come from, you should not come from the question, why should not compromise
the
religious?
He said
if someone comes to you,
so we talked about the law, by the law, the practice of
relationship between them, and the last one.
Do they come today, but they fast?
they change their lives.
All these things?
Don't say?
Fine, but this is so dangerous. If
you have children, how are you going to raise a family that will vote for lots of animals, there's no model now
that you really should think that it's very dangerous, in this case to be careful for quality, the reference for
cultural references in terms of age and attendance of culture, in terms of color, in terms of the sizes of a profession, in terms of you know, social status, all these things are cultural. So it's not just about the
culture, it focuses on the person. Now,
I can't say anything about this.
It's a matter of personal preference. Some people they care about qualities,
from qualities.
But what
is called the qualities
and the relationship with the people, how those people
how they behave.
You mentioned about giving gifts to your spouses and there are certain special occasions like birthdays, anniversaries,
Mother's Day Father's Day. So I I want your opinion on is it appropriate to what is the most special memory to share with your spouse?
Birthday
birthday birthday and then your children's birthday your mom's birthday
and then
these special
occasions
and become social I will say the same for the best okay?
I think however
the wife doesn't want
to have this spontaneous Nashville again
the husband continues to have a list of some numbers for years
and one of these workshops
so here's
what happened
what
lady
what a loving action for you is
how do you show up to number one the number one top reason that I've seen so far all these workshops
loving quality husbands they want from their wife
No, it's actually cooking good.
The highest
most guys the physical
most of
you know
No.
No.
So how
what people look for when it comes
to health
perspective of Muslims and then what should a Muslim look
for me
have to exist before it even I
know
how would you even define that?
If you don't love someone
after a long period of love or loving relationships
in America 62% that's crazy, but almost 60 to 64
80%
happened last year,
only one month, and they cannot say
what is that? So eventually, how do we define love?
I want you to be practical. When you propose to someone how I should proceed or just
you need to look for your comfort zone, you need to reach comfort zones that don't look to love them, because you will not be able to do
the exercise.
So you need to reach your comfort zone.
martial law by law
of attraction to them, you don't
want to sacrifice a lot for them to get to that point. But at least your comfort zone in this case,
proceed and move on. You can continue you can make engagement and start now in
case
Shura Council.
Were having problems. What kind of system do occur husband doesn't agree with this. Show me a husband
looking for a couple, when they have issues, the husband has a problem, the relationship that is too
late is almost for me.
husband is not now he doesn't want to come because he says there's nothing wrong with the front row with us. I have no problem with
somebody. But for me, I go to work.
And they also they hate to go
Why? Because they feel embarrassed.
They don't trust and confidentiality.
So
this is very,
very good. And that's what I meant by Bing on a very low you
try to say fine
life without you know,
sitting on the sofa
which means an arbitrator for Merseyside
side and trying to reconcile
if the
political situation alone is possible.
Man, please.
I highly recommended the city council
is for the lowest common denominator.
So the husband is not really trying to not tell him that whatever you get from the counselor is going to be an unbiased, it's not going to be serious counseling because you have to participate in active participation of both forms.
Be
a slight problem of Muslim men popping in and out of marriages leaving behind and not providing for them. What does not serve others. I wish it was only a slight problem.
The remaining husband and many guys, they really they think that they live the same life
for their children, that is
the stress so they move on
relationship.
So it's a serious problem and the last holding accountable deployment.
That day, the professor says
it's sufficient self sufficient extend a person commenced as they will, which means that because boom, they're responsible for to go waste resources that you don't take care of
your child
or your ex wife and never fade child custody.
You will never
forget parents in the relationship after the divorce, you know, they lost a foster children, that's a very, very serious issue and a lot more comfortable.
What
is a school
he comes back, he can help our children
expect their wives to be Superwoman the teachers, the teachers,
all the they want to do everything, their job is to walk outside raise the cash money, and then
well that is
the ratio traditional marriages, maybe some other countries in this society
and therefore talk relationship but
they have to open a system
or ask a man to go and you know, have a job
are also asked to come to the opposite. You
know, I'm asked
to help out when you walk
away and you know, some of these things.
Work on the house is a very serious for both of you do your best to
manage is made in heaven.
The question is based on the idea of the soulmate.
soulmate. That's the theory of romance in America, in the West in general. And where is it coming from? And it's interesting, it's coming from the same Muslim scholar
and Millennium have gone
out of
history is that the Spirit they meet in the universe, and then they come back and when they leave here that you know,
based on this database
so now they don't have
everything written. But
however, you are an active participant in that community that you take, take this make decisions and take choices at making these things happen.
So
I'm going to show
you the way
how would you suggest a wife or husband then forecasts of something that she needs from him and the relationship
ladies to take the bed as the chance to communicate these things.
Unfold
and go to the web. So it's a nice beautiful moment right now the app is amazing together
with for the Wizard of Oz conversation
and they don't communicate very
well on the list of speakers
because
they get really upset
So how can you have
quality time
look for a family husband is
gonna relieve that stress by giving a face away.
So
he will appreciate that once it is released, that's the best time to talk when it comes to luxury, you know,
appreciate helping young
children, okay?
Look for the quality time, don't do the wrong time before the
program
is very important. Unfortunately, I haven't seen any code, you know, most
it's still there.
And
that's not sufficient, I also have 16 CDs already activated
is loving your spouse a lot means you are meant
to attach to this world.
That love becomes an obsession, that you stop doing your religious duties, because
what are the rights of
the one
everything
there is advice people against allegations against
responsibility,
responsibility
responsibility,
what is the relation
with the customer? What is known that culture as long as the compound should arrive? For example, is it the responsibility to cook in the house
and so on?
Is it the job to go and work or service a home and
bring the money all defined according to a similar process a lot of setup. But this is not measured
by customer.
The horses after having children
when funds are
the best of funding older
children. However, the man is the responsible
party that says you know staff and staff.
Chairs should spend as much as you can.
So there is no way you can state the fact that you're responsible. But again as much as you can, after all did your kids these are children
to grow
as much as possible.