The Desease Of Denial
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The speaker discusses the importance of protecting oneself and others from potential threats, denying one's knowledge and beliefs, and avoiding denials and mistakes. They stress the need for forgiveness and the importance of planning ahead to stay true to one's values. The conversation also touches on the negative impact of denials and past violations on behavior and behavior. The importance of forgiveness is emphasized, and forgiveness is also discussed as a natural defense mechanism that humans try to avoid problems and avoid harm.AI Generated Transcript ©
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We're approaching the end of the year. Many people arrive
they come up with what they call
What do they call
resolutions,
changes and revise that was taking place.
Many people
try to adopt
new ways of doing things and dealing with matters in their lives.
Some people
consider
improving
their relationships.
Others consider
improving their health
and watching their diet
and losing weight.
Others decided promise
to have better management of their minds and their time and their finance.
These are just some of the examples. So
I don't think
some might be reviewing their policies, their foreign policies
to deal with their family
at all
From the role of the individual all the way to the President, everybody is reviewing their policies
and their programs.
However,
there is one disease.
To talk about today before I talk
about changes
and improving
our lives and improving our behavior. There's one disease,
a disease
that you only find among human beings,
a disease
that almost every single one of us
falls into, or is guilty of, or at least is susceptible to
a disease that comes in the form
of a defense mechanism
is a disease
that stands between you and change. positive change
is a disease that stands before you
and blocks you or stops you
from adopting positive change and improving your life.
There a change then of improvement,
then we have progress.
In almost every single one of us falls
or falls victim to it.
Across a heavy
recommends
a prayer simplification called the master of
seeking forgiveness, the master of which you seek forgiveness, and forgiveness
is a prayer and its application thought was wrong. So
it is recommended that you decide every day that every night
at least once during the day during the morning. It wasn't that
many of us memorize. Aloma Don't be
that.
My Lord.
You have there's no deity worthy to be worshipped. But you and you created me while you're sleep.
While
still,
I'm still committed
to companies.
And I promise to the best of my ability.
I admit it, I recognize and acknowledge your failure is upon me.
Your frame is upon me.
At the same time, I confess my sins.
And I acknowledge
I'm not deserving of those fingers.
But you are deserving
of generosity and kindness.
That's what you're saying.
When you confess the loss and handle that well without the facilities, so forgive me for in the lab
for no one other than you forgives sins.
Every day
I came across this
as I was preparing my thoughts, and my colleagues
for my football to talk about how do we approach the end of the year and how we improve and change. And then I said you know what? This heading addresses that disease. So let me talk about it before I talk about anything else.
The disease that this study
addresses and talks about
in addition to the diseases and other things
is a disease of denial
denial
denial,
which is a psychological process in which human beings
try, they attempt by altering and distorting reality.
They attempt
to protect themselves
and defend themselves from any threats or
threats that come
and make them
lose control, advise,
or throw them out of balance, or 13, one of their basic human needs, anytime they are confronted with one of those
threatening events
or behaviors,
they immediately resort to denial.
This, setting the ground
and allow themselves to fall victims for many kinds of problems, including addiction.
They become addicted to become obsessed.
And they suffer miserable failures in their lives because of this problem, denial.
You see, denial is the first
of those event, defense mechanisms
that human beings resorption.
And you can only find this amongst human beings.
Animals don't have to do
maybe
when you're burying your head in the sand,
pretending or trying to convince yourself that your problems don't exist.
Or
when you blame your problems on other people, and other external factors, it has nothing to do with you, your shortcomings or
your deficiencies. No.
It is rather someone else or some other factors, circumstances.
And people suffer of this
at all.
But in many cases, brothers and sisters, because they rely on not only do they suffer for those who are suffering.
And sometimes nations
suffer because of the denial that one person lives.
So in this heading,
the promise of the law is that teaches us
dry English. The first thing that you do is you confess, you admit your knowledge and you get rid of your denial.
You don't deny you recognize reality for what it is.
You see people suffering
when they for example, deny problems
or blame their problems in their relationship to others.
Or financially speaking,
there's nothing wrong.
It's not
someone else's
system.
health wise, many people suffer for years before they are willing. Before they have the courage to confront themselves and say you know what, I need to put an end to it.
Why
would I have the solution
within my reach?
People do the same thing to us.
Your children might be suffering, suffocating spiritual
crisis.
This is how it is.
their spouses might be suffering.
And they might be falling in a state of despair. They don't even talk about it anymore because they talk about it
will just be a problem. So you know what? Say you don't even talk about it.
They continue to suffer for years. And then at the end, under pressure, they slow
it all at the same time.
Everything comes crumbling for you at the same time. Why? Because you've been in denial for years.
Imagine wise
people
who might be responsible for in charge of other people
live in denial, causing suffering and pain to those who are under the leadership.
So just have the
teacher do that the first thing that you need to do
is confess, get rid of
recognize, have the courage. You see brothers and sisters, someone might ask, what are the causes? Many, as I said, it's a natural defense mechanism.
But it has cognitive components.
It has behavioral components to it.
It's a character flaw for someone to continue
living in denial.
Despite the suffering that he feels, or the suffering of others.
It is a character flaw.
It might be because of arrogance is some people sometimes think that. How can I?
How can I be so bad?
It's not me, it's some other people.
There's nothing wrong with me. And arrogance
is a disease in itself. That requires
a speech of its own.
The interests that are aware,
there are very easy on the side that they don't know.
Good to be brothers and sisters,
lack of
lack of courage.
People don't have the courage to confront
their problems, their challenges, their deficiencies and their shortcomings. So as a lot of you have
the power and the strength and the courage to confront the shortcomings
and our problems and our deficiencies and help us overcome them
as the loss of
powers to inspire us and make us a little
that alone some kind of guy that calls upon.
He would be children of Adam,
so long as you call upon me and asked of me.
I shall forgive you for what you have done.
And I shall not
have a son
or child.
What are your sins to reach the clouds
of the sky?
And wherever you went to ask forgiveness of me.
I will forgive you.
This is a promise from the laws of habit.
This is a deal. This is an opportunity for those people who recognize this as an opportunity
to see
senses head
during the day, for the spirit of the night.
And he extended his hands during the night for the center and the offender of the day to retention
unite is
to protect ourselves from citizens to the best of our capacity. However, no matter how much we try to fold into cities,
without it tells us as people forgiveness,
tried to stop sending, you won't be able to
try your best don't commit sins.
The most important part is that you recognize that you're a sinner.
Are you a violator,
don't deny,
don't pretend,
don't ignore,
respond to the law.
He's presenting you with an opportunity.
And this opportunity continues to be available
until the last minute.
So don't wait until the last minute.
Because you don't know who that is. You may be living your last minute as we speak.
However, in order for you to repent,
it will be for you to ask for forgiveness. In order for you to say I'm sorry, you must recognize that you're sorry that you did something that should make you smarter.
And that's what
a lot of medical people want. First thing that you're doing is you're recognizing a warrant, establishing the motion of the law on your mind.
There is no one way to be worshipped, you have no partners in this lordship.
No one else but you
know, one was
the value
or if that significance, value of
wealth is not as important, it is not my load.
Relationships are not as important.
People are not as important.
status is not as important.
Nothing is as important you and my
wife took an eye on your sleep, and then got iPhone five.
Because I tend to be happy and successful in this life.
reason to be the slave of gold and a slate of silver.
miserable.
I'm not just thinking of fashion, because
I'm only you
manage yourself saying this every morning.
While
I'm still committed to the covenant.
Yes, I do.
I do pray my promise sometimes. But I'm still committed.
Deep inside my heart said that was just my desires, my shortcomings in
my last elucidation, but I am committed, I'm still committed.
What I
promise most of the
week.
I know I'm not as strong as I should be.
But to the best of my ability, sincerely, and genuinely, I'm committed.
I confess, I don't. I promise you failure is upon me.
Let me also
allow me more time giving me this chance to repent.
guiding me to the truth
of these blessings. And on top of that giving me this life, giving me
Giving me family, wealth, everything, those things that I asked you all those things that I didn't ask you.
And if you were to try to count the blessings and the fingers on the wall, you will not be able to,
you will not be able to, I recognize all of them for a lot of
work to be done be in at the same time, with the same tone, and letting you know that I recognize myself as a sinner, and I recognize my sins and my violations for me, so forgive me for no one. But
if you have offended a boss,
or if you have offended, or if you live the lifestyle, if you have a pattern.
If your pattern of conduct or behavior is the time that
involves
violations that says that offending others you shouldn't recognize.
And you should remember,
he may have much
left.
Last last time,
nobody was supposed to do that. We need to get rid of the aisle.
And we need to sit with ourselves
and those how much we have left home for
nuclear
constant change.
But in order for you to do that you have to play
and you have to go through your documents, your papers, your files, and make sure that there is nothing left that could be held against you
as Elvis accomplishes
how's it
was listen to
what I said. He said
he heard it are back at
our
company.
further assistance as you pray for yourself. Please remember our brothers and sisters who are distressed those who are sick those who passed away and those who are suffering as we speak. In the world, we asked a lot of pesos. Do not forget it.
And you're welcome.
Hello.
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we'll go
through the pain of
the code.
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that
I have
in
the middle
men and
women
and their secrets to form
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Tommy
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was in
a
plan
that will be adapted
for the woman who I love
the most
you willing to be
paid
for
the support.
We're approaching them today, many people arrive,
they come up with what they call,
what do they call.
And again we have resolutions,
changes and revise that was taking place.
Many people
try to adopt
new ways of doing things and dealing with managing their lives.
Some people
consider
improving
their relationships.
Others consider
improving their health
and watching their diet
and losing weight.
Others decided promise
to have better management of their minds and their time and their finance.
These are just some of the examples. And some,
some might be reviewing their policies, their foreign policies
to deal with their failure
at all levels,
from the individual all the way to the President, everybody review their policies
and their programs.
However,
there is one disease
that I'll talk about today to talk
about changes
and improving
our lives and improving our behavior. There's one disease
today
a disease
that you only find among human beings.
a disease
that almost every single one of us
falls into or is guilty of, or at least is susceptible to
a disease comes in the form
of a defense mechanism
is a disease
that stands between you and change. positive change
is a disease that stands before you
and blocks you or stops you
from adopting positive change and improving your life.
It's that change when you have improvements improvement.
Then we have progress.
And almost every single one of us falls
or falls victim to it.
You know I came across a heavy
recommends
a prayer supplication called the master of
seeking forgiveness, the master of ceremonies. You seek forgiveness. Forgiveness
is a prayer and supplication part was by the grace of God
It is recommended that you decided every day that every night,
at least once during the day during
the meeting was memorizing a lot of my therapy
that it has,
my Lord,
you have there is no deity worthy to be worshipped. But you and you created me while you're sleep.
While
still,
I'm still committed
to companies.
And I promise to the best of my ability.
I admit, and I recognize and I acknowledge your failures upon me,
your favorites upon me.
At the same time, I confess my sins.
And I acknowledge that simple.
I'm not deserving of those fingers.
But you are deserving
of generosity and kindness.
That's what you're saying.
When you confess the last panel that well we then the jury, so forgive me for in the lab,
and for no one other than you forgives sins.
Every day,
I came across this ad,
as I was preparing my thoughts, and my colleagues,
for my football, to talk about how do we approach the end of the year and how we improve and change. And then I said, you know, what, this actually addresses that disease. So, let me talk about it before I talk about anything else.
The disease, that this country
addresses and talks about
in addition to the diseases and other things,
is a disease like denial,
denial,
denial, which is a psychological process in which human beings
try, they attempt by altering and distorting reality.
They attempt
to protect themselves
and defend themselves from any threats or
threats that come
and make them
lose control, advise
or throw them out of balance, or 13, one of their basic human needs, anytime they are confronted with one of those
threatening events
or behaviors,
they immediately resort to deny,
thus, setting the ground
and allowing themselves to fall victims for many kinds of problems, including addiction.
They become addicted or to become obsessed.
And they suffer miserable failures in their lives because of this problem, denial.
You see, denial is the first
of those defense defense mechanisms
that human beings resorption.
And you can only find this amongst human beings, maybe genes
and not only have to do
maybe aspirators.
When you bury your head in the sand,
pretending or trying to convince yourself that your problems don't exist.
Or
when you blame your problems on other people and other external factors. It has nothing to do with you your shortcomings or
your deficiencies. No.
It is referred to
Someone else or some other factors, circumstances.
And people suffer this
at all.
But in many cases, brothers and sisters, because of their denial, not only do they suffer, but those who are irrelevant suffer.
And sometimes nations
suffer because of the denial that one person lives.
So in this heading,
the province of aloha teaches
English, the first thing that you do is you confess, you admit your knowledge and you get rid of your denial.
You don't deny you recognize reality for what it is.
You see people suffering
when they, for example, deny problems
or blame their problems in their relationship dilemmas
or financial history.
There's nothing wrong.
It's not their style, it is someone else's
system.
health wise, many people suffer for years before they are willing, before they have the courage to confront themselves and say, You know what, I need to put an end to it.
Why
would I have the solution
within my reach?
People do the same thing toilets.
Their children might be suffering, suffocating spiritual
crisis.
This is how it is
when
their spouses might be suffering.
And they might be falling in a state of despair. They don't even talk about it anymore, because they talk about it
will just be a problem. So you know what, say you don't even talk about it.
So they don't talk.
And they continue to suffer for years. And then at the end, under pressure, they slow
it all at the same time.
Everything comes on you at the same time. Why? Because you've been in denial for years.
And legend wise.
People
who might be responsible or in charge of other people
live in denial, causing suffering and pain to those who are under the leadership.
So this
teaches us that the first thing that you need to do
is confess, get rid of
recognize have the courage. You see brothers and sisters, someone might ask what are the causes of many things, as I said, it's a natural defense mechanism.
But it has cognitive components.
It has behavioral components to it.
It's a character flaw for someone to continue
living in denial.
Despite the suffering that he feels or the suffering of others.
It is a character flaw.
It might be because of arrogance is some people sometimes think that how can I
How can I be so bad?
It's not me it's some other people.
There's nothing wrong with me. And arrogance
is a disease in itself. Very wise.
speech of its sole
interest they're not aware.
They're aware of all they see on the side that they don't know.
To be brothers and sisters.
Lack of character is put badly lack of courage.
People don't have the courage to confront
their
problems, their challenges, their deficiencies and their shortcomings. So as a lot of you have
the power, the strength and the courage to confront the shortcomings
and our problems and our deficiencies and help us overcome them
as a loss of
power powers, to inspire.
The purpose of the law is
that Allah subhanho data calls upon
human beings, children of Adam,
so long as you call upon me, and asked of me,
I shall forgive you for what you have done.
And I shall not
have a son,
or child.
What are you since to reach the clouds
of the sky?
And where do you then to ask forgiveness of me?
I will forgive you.
This is a promise from philosophy.
This is a deal. This is an opportunity for those people who recognize this as an opportunity.
Your
senses head
during the day, for the spirit of the night.
And he said his hands during the life for the sinner and the offender of the day to retention
is asking you is
to protect themselves from citizens to the best of our capacity. However, no matter how much we try to fold into cities,
without it tells us asking for forgiveness.
You tried to stop sending you won't be able to
try your best or
the most important part is that you recognize that you're a sinner.
Don't be naive.
Don't pretend,
don't ignore,
respond to the law.
He's presenting you with an opportunity.
And this opportunity continues to be available
until the last minute.
So don't wait until the last minute.
Because you don't know who that last minute is. You may be last minute as we speak.
However, in order for you to repent,
it will be for you to ask for forgiveness. In order for you to say I'm sorry. You must recognize that you're sorry that you did something that should make you smarter.
That's what the
first thing that you're doing is you're recognizing a warrant establishing the motion of the law on your mind.
There's no need to be worshipped God no partners in this lordship.
I recognize no one else but you
know, one was
the value
or significance value of nursing homes.
And newborn
wealth is not as important. It is not my Lord.
Relationships are not as important.
People are not as important.
status is not as important.
Nothing is as important you
took an eye on your sleeve. And in that iPhone five
because I tend to be happy and successful in this life, and a profitable plus
there is our
mission to be the slave of gold and the slave of silver.
miserable.
I'm not just thinking of fashion, because
I'm only you
message yourself saying this every morning.
While
I'm still committed to the covenant,
yes, I do violate
my father sometimes. But I'm still committed.
Deep inside. My mindset is just my desires, my shortcomings in
my last elucidation, but I am committed, I'm still committed.
Did I promise last
week.
I know I'm not as strong as I should be.
But to the best of my ability I
genuinely am committed.
I confess, I don't, I promise you failure is upon me.
Let me also
allow me more time, giving me this chance to repent.
guiding me to the truth
of these blessings. And on top of that, giving me this life giving me help giving me family, wealth, everything, those things that I asked you all those things that I didn't ask you.
And if you were to try to count the blessings, and the fingers of luck, you will not be able to,
you will not be able to recognize all of them.
work will be done in at the same time, with the same time and letting you know that I recognize myself as a sinner, and I recognize my sins and my violations for me, so forgive me for Nolan with you for peace.
If you have offended a boss,
or if you have offended, or if you live the lifestyle, if you have a pattern.
If your pattern of conduct and behavior is the time that
involves
violations and sins that offending others you shouldn't recognize.
And you should remember
that you may not have much
left.
Last last time.
Nobody was supposed to do that. We need to get rid of denial.
And we need to sit with ourselves take agility of those days and those habits a lot of how much should we
hold for
nuclear
constant change.
But in order for you to do that, you have to plan for it.
And you have to go through your documents, your papers, your files, and make sure that there is nothing left that could be held against you.
As
accomplished this
was in 2008 American one has a global
problem.
Hello
via
Okay, we'll get to that go for the sisters attitude pray for yourselves please remember our brothers and sisters who are distressed those who are sick those who passed away died and those who are suffering as we speak in the world we asked a lot.
Do not forget that in your
in your situation doing work